• Week 29
  • Scripture Reading: – Rev 3:14
  • Topic: – Are you LIVING in Lo-debar?

Are you LIVING in Lo-debar?

Many times in our life, we feel like we are living in a desert and we cannot see the green pasture around us. I have been in that place many times. Here is Good News – The One who is leading us like a Shepherd has a promise for us in Psalm 23:2, He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters.

Then the king said

2 Sam 9:3 

then the king said, “Is there not still someone of the house of Saul, to whom I may show the kindness of God?” And Ziba said to the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan who is lame in his feet.” 4 So the king said to him, “Where is he? “And Ziba said to the king, “Indeed he is in the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, in Lo-debar.” 5 Then King David sent and brought him out of the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, from Lo-debar.

“As for Mephibosheth,” said the king, “he shall eat at my table like one of the king’s sons.” . . . So Mephibosheth dwelt in Jerusalem, for he ate continually at the king’s table. And he was lame in both his feet.

Despite our past choices, our DESTINY is still GREATER than our DISASTER!

Lo-debar is one of the cities that Joshua destroyed when entering Canaan! A Town without any hope! There is always a twist and turns in our life. We will never know what will happen tomorrow, but, we live with an assurance that God holds our future.

We all know the tragic end of the first king [Saul] of Israel. He, along with his three sons was killed in a battle against Philistines, which we can study at the end of (1 Samuel 31). When I was reading that, I thought that that was the end of the generation of Saul in history and David would be anointed as the King of Israel immediately. 

But, there was a twist. He had another son named Ishbosheth who was made the king of Israel by Saul’s uncle Abner (2 Samuel 2:8). Sounds interesting right! A man anointed by the Lord was not made as the king of Israel, even after his enemy who sought his life died. That’s how our life would be some time. The only thing is ‘that we need to wait and trust in Him.

Here comes the biggest twist in the story. Ishbosheth was killed by his own servants in Chapter 4 and then comes an introduction of a person named ‘Mephibosheth’. Who was he? – He was the son of David’s best friend Jonathan and grandson of Saul. (2 Samuel 4:4) What happened to him? – He became crippled. (2 Samuel 4:4)

How did that happen?

When his nanny heard about the death of King Saul and his sons, she tried to flee away with him, so that she could take him to a safer place. While running away, she dropped him, making him crippled for life. Note that, he was only 5 when this incident happened. (2 Samuel 4:4)

What can we learn from this ‘Mephibosheth’ – whose name means ‘shameful’ [Skandelik]?

  • The place of no pasture [Geen weiding]
  • You didn’t want to live or die in Lo-debar. It was a dry, parched, crummy place to live.
  • But where were we when Jesus Christ found us? We were living in Lo-debar, a parched, dried-up place.
  • This is a reminder to us that we need to reach out to our friends, neighbours, and even enemies who don’t know Christ. They don’t realize it, but they are living in Lo-debar. They are living in a parched place — separated from God. So we need to ask God to place an urgency in our hearts. We all know people who need someone to reach out to them. That is exactly what David did. And that is what we need to do.
  •  It means “no word” or “nothing.” You didn’t want to live in Lo-debar.

1. He was dropped by the one he trusted

2 Samuel 4:4

Jonathan, Saul’s son, had a son who was lame in his feet. He was five years old when the news about Saul and Jonathan came from Jezreel, and his nurse took him up and fled. And it happened, as she made haste to flee, that he fell and became lame. His name was Mephibosheth.

Mephibosheth’s injury was because somebody dropped him. It was not his fault. Sometimes, in our life, there might have been situations which caused us to fall and damage our life. The hardest part is, that the cause of the fall would be someone whom we trusted the most. Someone, whom you have trusted, dropped you and crippled your life. 

Have you been in that situation or are you undergoing such a situation now? Let me tell you, God can work it out. And, remember, God asks us to put our trust in Him and not the human.

Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save. – Psalm 146:3 It is better to trust in the Lord Than to put confidence in princes – Psalm 118:9 Blessed is that man who makes the Lord his trust, And does not respect the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.

2. He was picked by the King

[You are PICKED by the King]

2 Samuel 9:1-3

Now David said, “Is there still anyone who is left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” And there was a servant of the house of Saul whose name was Ziba. So when they had called him to David, the king said to him, “Are you Ziba?” He said, “At your service!” Then the king said, “Is there not still someone of the house of Saul, to whom I may show the kindness of God?” 

In ancient days, when a king has been defeated by his enemy, his entire generation would be wiped out, such that, there would be none to claim the throne back again. But here, we can see David, instead of searching for Saul’s family to be killed, wants to show kindness to anyone surviving in the family. And Ziba said to the king, “There is still a son of Jonathan who is lame in his feet.”

We can see that Ziba when asked about a survivor of the family of Saul (If you are thinking why David is asking Ziba, about the whereabouts of Saul’s family, note that he is the servant of the household of Saul), he didn’t mention the name of the person, instead, he mentioned about the problem of that person. 

Friends that is how the world will look unto us. People around us will rather look into our problems than who we are. When Ziba mentioned the handicap, David wants to give healing to the person. That’s how our Creator is. When the world sees our problem, God sees the person. 

David desired to extend grace to the family of Saul, due to the covenant he had with Jonathan. This is amazing, as we know, in ancient days, kings will totally eradicate the families of their predecessors to ensure that no will claim the throne later. 

God extends His unconditional love and grace to us, even though we are unworthy and we don’t deserve it.

Have you been crippled in your life? Don’t ever worry. No matter how you are, there is a king seeking you out. David wants to bring the lame man to the palace when everyone was looking at ‘Mephibosheth’ as a failure.

3. Time to come out of Lode-bar

2 Samuel 9:4-5

So the king said to him, “Where is he? “And Ziba said to the king, “Indeed he is in the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, in Lo-debar. “Then King David sent and brought him out of the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, from Lo-debar.

Where was Mephibosheth living? He was in the house of ‘Machir’ which means ‘sold’ in Lo-debar which means ‘No Pasture’. This explains the circumstance and the condition of this crippled prince. He was injured from the fall which was not his fault. 

He was separated, hiding and afraid. And also, his name means ‘shameful’. We can see that HE WAS IN A HOPELESS SITUATION.

Like Mephibosheth, we are sold under sin and live in a place where there is no pasture. But, there is hope as our loving Father saved us from sin by His only Son Jesus through His unconditional love and grace. Grace does not concern itself with the man’s background, his surroundings, his abilities, his appearance, his future potential, etc. David didn’t look at the condition of Mephibosheth. 

He wants him just like he is. That was how with the amazing grace of God. He doesn’t look upon us how crippled we are. He looks upon us through the eyes of His grace though we are unworthy.

I couldn’t imagine how Miphiboseth would have felt when the chariots came to his house and told him, ‘You are wanted by the king’. His heart would have melted in fear thinking, ‘this would be the last day of my life. But, what he expected didn’t happen. To his amazement, David speaks peace to him. The King promises him the restoration of all the wealth and glory that once belonged to the family of Saul and more than that, Mephibosheth gets a place at the king’s table. Like Mephibosheth, when we fear judgement, God extends His grace to us.

Mephibosheth not only received grace but also more blessing from the King which he would have not imagined. In Lo-debar, Mephibosheth had nothing. He was poor. He was an outcast. He was a fugitive. He had no hope and no prospects for his future. But, when he met Grace [Jesus], everything changed! All of his present needs were met and his future was secured.

The same is true for all those experiencing God’s grace. When we were enslaved by sin, we were in Lo-debar, which had nothing. We were lost and we had no hope. But when God extended and embraced us with His grace, everything changed. More than that, we have become partakers and heirs of His kingdom.

Ephesians 2:1-4

And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others. But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us…

God elevated us to a new position [Heavenly Places] (Ephesians 2:5 even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), 6 and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, through His grace, and changed us completely in Him. 

He took us from Lo-debar and made us His children and seated us at His table, no matter what our past looked like. We blame ourselves, our parents, our spouses, our kids or our lot thus quitting on GOD, and becoming hopeless and depressed. 

Often the tired masses find no relief, attempting to commit suicide in order to escape their misery! However, the King defines MEPHIBOSHETH AND YOU AND ME by an Everlasting Covenant!!

We are not to regard our past, present or future, we are not to heed the negative words of the people around us, we are only to understand that God looks at us in a new light- the light of his son and look on him alone. his holy spirit is our eternal companion bringing us closer to the son who is truly afflicted in all our afflictions!

We are therefore Covenant people! 

PURCHASED by His Blood. No longer Cripples/SLAVES to people /circumstances at the paradoxical “Beautiful Gate” but freely able to run, walk, sing and dance in the Spirit as TRUE WORSHIPPERS!

Let us, therefore, leave LO- DEBAR and abide with the HIGH KING, no more “bondage” but an ETERNAL promise of dining at the KING’S TABLE, before our very enemies where GOODNESS & MERCY flows everlastingly!! AMEN! 🙂

  • Come out of Lo-debar, there is nothing but death for you there.
  • Come out of Lo-debar, there is only defeat for you there.
  • Come out of Lo-debar, where there is only wasted land there.
  • Come out of Lo-debar, there is no pasture there.
  • God has a place for you in the palace!
  • End of shame
  • This is your time of restoration
  • Delivered from death
  • TAKE ACTION NOW!

Where, what is your Lo-debar? Are you HIDING in Lo-debar?

May God bless His Word

Pst. J Venter

The Author: Pastor Johan Venter

From: Impact Pentecostal Ministries

Pastor Johan Venter was born in 1961 and grew up in Odendaalsrus (Freestate) where he matriculated. Whereafter he attended the Police Force College for 2 years in Pretoria and served in the Army for 2 years during which Johan met his wife Charmaine. 

Between 1997 and 1999 Johan and Charmaine completed Pastoral training at the Christian Revival Church Bible School under the leadership of Pastor At Boshoff. Over the years they both faithfully served in various Ministries until 2019, when God led them to ‘step out of the boat’ and start the “Impact Pentecostal Ministries” in Newcastle, KwaZulu-Natal. 

They currently host the Church service at La Gratitude Home for the Aged every Friday morning. They are truly blessed and grateful for God’s Grace and are excited to see what God is going to do for the ministry in the future.

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